Ghosting is an unfortunately extremely widespread practice, from which it is always difficult to recover. We start talking to a person, we see each other, we get attached a little, then overnight, the person disappears from our life without explanation. We then feel rejected , and that is a huge disrespect. There's really no explanation other than that the other person is incredibly cowardly , but how to move on , when they refuse to give us an explanation?
Whether you've been on a few dates or been dating for months, ghosting is still extremely painful . But the good news is that it is possible to stop thinking about that person! You just need to take care of yourself and apply some tips.
While we are always more connected, we keep moving away. When you get ghosted, you become a hybrid being between James Bond , a CIA agent and Villanelle . We look for elements that could help us understand, we stalk the person, we ask our friends for advice. We do this in the hope of getting an explanation that will appease our pain.
But no matter how much we look for all the evidence we want, turn the situation around, the pain will not go away until we accept the truth :this person just doesn't want to be with us.
If we've sent the last text and we're still read, or even worse, that the person does not even bother to open our message, this person clearly shows us what they think of us.
The only advice what we can then give is to move forward . If you keep texting, you're just going to suffer for nothing. " Escape me and I will follow you; follow me, I'm running away from you”:if you continue to “follow” this person, they will just run away at the speed of Usain Bolt . No time to waste then. If someone likes you, they're not going to have fun chasing you for nothing:move on , she has no excuse, and you deserve better than that.
Of course, as we know, it's complicated to move on, and the essence of ghosts , is to haunt us. But we explain how to move forward and stop thinking about that person.
