Are you parents?
And you are looking for ways to properly educate your children?
It's true that it's far from easy every day!
Especially since our generation of parents is cataloged as the one giving children EVERYTHING they want WHEN they want it.
So here are 10 ways to raise a child if you want him to become self-centered and bad-mannered .
Anyway, now you have been warned! Watch:
For example, in the car, your children can play on their tablet.
So they won't even answer you when you ask them about their day at school or when you show them something on the street that might interest them.
Even better:they won't even know where you're taking them and won't annoy you with these kinds of questions:"Are we coming...?!".
Admittedly, you will surely have to get angry so that they get out of the car and take off their screen...
And if they have their phone at the table, they will be texting their buddies throughout the meal and not participating in any conversation.
Thus, they will never be "bored" and will never be restless at the table.
This involves avoiding any kind of discomfort, problematic situation or disappointment for them.
Always defend them when they do something stupid.
Do not hesitate to point out how much their teachers do not understand anything with their mediocre training...
This way, your kids will never learn how to take on a challenge on their own or fix a mistake they made.
They will think they deserve everything good that happens to them. They will be certain that their life should be without any difficulty or frustration.
And, as they get older, when the going gets tough for them, they'll find ways to lie or cheat to get by.
And obviously they will blame others for anything that goes wrong.
The dry cleaners, the cable guy or the cashiers always owe you impeccable service!
As you believe that your children will never have to exercise such a profession (see n° 10) , they don't have to be understanding or compassionate to people you don't think are "effective" enough.
Likewise, if your children have bad grades, approve their complaints about the "nullity" of their teacher.
Consider complaining to the school principal or at least send him a letter to express your displeasure.
NB: with this strategy, it is likely that your children will also frequently complain about you.
Which is also a great way to become aware of your own faults...
It's much easier than remembering to give them pocket money every month.
It's also easier than helping them find a little job or teaching them how to manage their own money.
Above all, it's much better than helping them understand that everything has a cost, even the one they "desperately need"...
When you choose a cultural or sporting activity for your children, pay the price. They must be in the best clubs.
Thus, coaches, teachers and all the staff will feel obliged to promote the success of your children.
They will encourage them more, concede them more important results, even more trophies...
They are going to be more careful that your children never feel like a failure and are never disappointed.
It's normal for kids to want to stay up, especially if they're texting or playing a video game late into the night.
One night you can always nag them into going to bed.
But the next evening, you will probably be tired of doing the same thing again...
So let them choose what time they want to go to bed.
Or ignore them until they fall asleep...
That way, they'll know they can decide when to go to bed as they see fit.
If they are tired at school or if they have trouble concentrating, know that there are "excellent" chemical stimulants on the market;-)
Do this especially if you need to open up about a serious issue.
Even if you cry or get angry!
With this absence of limits and privacy, your children will then believe that your business is their business.
In fact, they will think they have to deal with them and solve them.
By being a "parent-buddy", you can be sure that they will fail to develop real friendships with people their own age.
Their friends will not interfere in your "friendly" relationship with your children.
So your children will continue to support you and listen to you as soon as you need them.
Moreover, this lack of boundaries between you and them will cause them to be cheeky or disagreeable with you, as they sometimes are with their siblings.
Your children are very busy, just like you.
But it is still you who will write the messages of thanks to each other for this or that gift offered.
Don't worry, people know that your children are grateful for all the gifts they received!
Why bother teaching them how to express their gratitude orally and in writing?! They already have so much to do...
Being bored is uncomfortable and unnecessary.
Climbing the corporate ladder one by one is a waste of time.
Might as well use your connections so that your children when they grow up start at the top of the ladder right away and get paid well.
The piston, only that is true!
With this method, they will surely have a very strong professional ethic, thanks in particular to the people around them who will have deserved their position just as much as they do...
And if they need money, look again at point #4.
Bonus #1: your children will therefore think that everyone has to bend over backwards for them and that they have the right to skip the "hassle" boxes of life.
Bonus #2: this will reduce the "risks" of them working in the service of others or working alongside different people.
Thus, they will constantly feel superior to waiters, cleaners or cashiers.
And they will make them feel by being contemptuous of them.
Children often have difficulty managing their time.
It's understandable:they are so distracted by video games, Facebook, Instagram and the 10,000 text messages sent by friends...
Nothing is more important to teenagers than what's happening on their smartphone.
Just tell yourself that it's okay if they want to be seen as "cool" by their friends.
If they have homework to do, don't make the situation worse by asking them to empty the dishwasher.
It's really a very bad idea to involve them in household chores! They might become responsible as they grow up;-)
And There you go ! You now know the 10 ways to raise a child if you want him to become self-centered and badly brought up;-)
They will also likely develop a strong sense of insecurity.
They will be materialistic, anxious, arrogant and surely very dependent on you.
Obviously, they will not develop the qualities needed to nurture lasting friendships.
And then, without your intervention, they won't be able to get a job or manage stress and anxiety.
Maybe then they'll have to turn to alcohol or worse...
What better way to strengthen family bonds than to ensure that your children never leave the nest and remain under your thumb?! Isn't that great..?!
Did this article make you cringe?
Me, it makes me a little nervous because I have sometimes happened to do one or the other of these things with my own children...
Fortunately, it was only at one point!
And then, it is by recognizing your mistakes that you can improve...
Making these kinds of mistakes is common in our society under the pressure of time, stress, materialism, screens everywhere, etc.
But remember that, even in this context, we can (and should) take steps to raise our children to be strong, empathetic, curious and open to the world around them.
It's the only way to make them happy! :-)
