Whether you're in a bar or any other place where people meet, studies in psychology show that it's NOT those who are the most physically attractive who get approached the most!
And yes. A thousand times better than your little Zara imitation Gucci dress with a plunging neckline, what works BEFORE ALL is to signal your interest and confidence to the other with a look or a smile. It has been proven, whether you are a man or a woman, signaling your desire allows you to go halfway to really attract. It's all about being daring... When I like a guy, I tend to turn my head the other way...
> Takeaway:We tend to sabotage ourselves for the wrong reasons. There are evenings when we refuse to go out while our friends in a flirty mood harass us. Reason, we feel bad:we have a bad head (we think), we gained 5 kilos and we don't feel sexy, etc. Now that we know it doesn't have so much importantly, we move, we make a doe look, and we go (if we meet a guy, it will boost us all the more to get back to the sport).
>>> Read also:3 tips for a hit at dinner parties
Touch the other
Research has isolated 3 types of contacts that work with varying degrees of efficiency.
—> Friendly contact:shaking hands, tapping on the shoulder or pushing the other person's shoulder.
—> The contact that opens up possibilities:touch around the shoulder, on the waist, or on the forearm.
—> Nuke effect contact for flirting:touching the face.
The guinea pigs of the studies are unanimous:as soon as you touch their face, they are everything and the heart capsizes. Roohh, but what is this little dust in the eye of this guy you have been chatting with for 20 minutes? Take it away (gently) quickly! Man with dust in the eye =man half in bed.
Beware, once you've gotten her attention and desire via flirtation, keep this in mind:studies confirm that playing it "hard to get" works. There is a logical equation:if you give everything right away, the other has nothing more to discover. The mistake is to play "the total" straight thinking thus showing the extent of your "talents", so to speak. The disaster scenario:the guy never calls back when we were borderline better lover than Samantha in Sex and the City .
> What we remember:AND WHY WOULD NOT WE PLAY IT (A BIT) LIKE JOSEPHINE, WHO PUT NAPOLEON AT HIS FEET? He had been awarded the palme d'or for flirting.
