Patrice, 37
“Three years ago, after a breakup, I registered on Meetic and Gleeden. As a result, the datings were linked. How many girls have I met, who spoke at a continuous rate! Silence seemed their enemy. Dating is not an interview. I like that the girl expresses herself, but that she also listens. It values us, we feel (still a little) the master of the game. I am also wary of a trap:monomaniacal discussion. By chance, we discover a common passion, on Rihanna or the serial killers. It mobilizes the whole dinner. At the time of the addition, the impression of having gone around and having nothing else to say. You have to know how to get out of the way of a conversation. »
Benjamin, 35
“We are less anti-commitment than we think. This curve has even been rather reversed:I have lots of friends who have pushed for the apartment together and the baby, while their girlfriends wanted to stay free. This inversion is not done in bliss:we are aware, like you, of the fragility of a couple these days. But we tell ourselves that building a project is concrete (we love concrete) and that it is a courageous challenge. Afterwards, we still hate feeling the pressure so much. Mounted by stories of biological clock and I don't know what. We like it when the girl talks about "us" in the future tense by accident, as if it escapes her. It gives us a signal. Because the decision to commit, we always prefer that it comes from us. »
