Every mother sometimes experiences the feeling that motherhood is not fun. However? Or should I start rinsing my mouth with soap and pretend that everything is always just cake and egg? It is not for nothing that it is talked about more often these days. Motherhood isn't always fun, it's not always a pink cloud, no… sometimes it's more like a pink dagger. Fortunately, we can all relativize a bit. However, the first years of motherhood can be very difficult if things don't go well.
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We've written about it before, about the fact that motherhood is hard. Pregnancy doesn't always go the way you hoped, and motherhood actually starts when you're already exhausted from the birth. Or how about postpartum depression? You are not just in charge, it just happens to you if you are unlucky, so is Marjolijn. We can understand that your motherhood is not fun at such a moment, but does your environment understand it too?
That's always the question. Bystanders often react laconic. Why isn't motherhood fun? Isn't it heavenly to have such a little one in your arms? Yes! We all think so, but the bystanders forget for a moment that that heavenly little one sometimes makes you walk on your gums. And then motherhood isn't fun. No.
We can make a list for you in a few minutes:
Fortunately, there are also things about motherhood that are more than worth the effort, (almost) all mothers know that too. That is not a list for now, but of course it has to be said.
What is really nice, those are the films and series that are currently being made around the subject of motherhood. With the recognizable moments that make motherhood no fun. If you are watching a film like this in the cinema, you can hear all the mothers sighing and uhuhuh-ing, as a token of recognition. And that creates a bond 😉 .
Tully movie is on its way, and I think that's one you must see as a mother. This film will be shown in cinemas from 10 May and you can indulge yourself. When I watch the trailer I almost choke on the recognizable scenes, but I am also left completely curious. That tastes like more. I want to see the movie!
Marlo (Charlize Theron) has always been in control, but now that the family has a third child, it's all getting a bit too much for her. When Marlo's rich brother proposes to pay a nanny to take care of the child at night, it seems like an offer she can't possibly refuse. The beautiful Tully (Mackenzie Davis) also turns out to be the best nighttime nanny any mother could wish for. Marlo slowly comes back to life and an intense bond develops between her and Tully. It turns out they have more in common than she initially thought…
Do you join the mothers who indeed do not like motherhood (not always), then I have something nice for you. I can give away 3 relaxation packages to give you as a mother some me-time again. And they make motherhood a little easier again.
This is included in a relaxation package:
