1 We put ourselves in condition. Of course, we have fresh breath, scented ears (or vice versa), chic underwear and a pleasant smile (or vice versa) but not only. We also think of the mind, that is to say of nothing. We abuse the technique of the hamster during the heat, the free wheel. Tonight there is no before, no after, only during.
2 We talk… a minimum. To say what you feel:apprehension, desire, pleasure (your choice or all). And above all, we avoid telling your life story, like:"it's crazy you're more hairy than my ex" =castrating effect as much as possible.
3 Let's get loose. But we don't give into the demo reel genre to show everything we can do in bed. It is not a contest or a debauched interview but a moment of sharing and pleasure. In short, we do as we feel (so to speak).
4 We put ourselves in his place. Below or above, it depends but above all we don't forget that this man is as afraid, hungry, hungry... as we are. And that above all, he has only one fear:not being up to the task... so without going so far as to applaud at the first signs of operation, we show that everything is fine.
5 We think only of ourselves. All shrinks say it:sharing in bed requires a good dose of selfishness. Clearly, we focus on our pleasure to ourselves. How by making a clean sweep of polluting questions:does he find me fat, sensual? does he find it good? Did I call the banker back? We let go and we start again.
