Arranging guardianship for your children. Very important, but there are many parents who have not yet arranged this (properly). And I have to admit with shame on my cheeks that we too belong to them. Of course we did talk about it, about arranging custody. And we have already made statements about i

I always shouted very loud and tough Im not afraid to die. And I honestly meant that at the time. I am now a few years older (40+) and my thoughts about dying and saying goodbye have clearly changed. In fact… I think differently about it and I think about it regularly. Ill explain why. Table of con

If the group app reflects the brain size of the average person in this living group, the quotient simply drops. That far is clear to me. Man, man, man…. What nonsense is being spread here these days. Contentless drivel which does not exceed the level of the Fabeltjeskrant by far. The Group app and e

Receive a letter from a deceased loved one. We all want that. It happened to a 5-year-old boy from Germany, who missed his deceased grandfather so much. You must have read the message, it went viral last weekend. Everyone is full of praise for the anonymous finder of the balloon, who sent back a let

A photo album full of snapshots with highlights from your childhood. On the potty for the first time. Or a video in which you happily hop through the garden in bare buttocks. Wonderful, isnt it, those childhood memories? Until that entire album is online, visible to the whole world. That happened to

Beyond the fields of grain, the sun sank to another part of the world. At least, I could have seen that if the tears hadnt dripped incessantly onto my lap. I really wanted to drive back hard. I had just taken my little girl to the carpool where she was riding with Grandpa for her weekly visitation s

Brothers, I have two and its driving me crazy. All my life Ive had a brother and when I was almost two years old, another one was added. In the beginning that is funny, such a baby, but now? Brother is now six years old and thinks he is the funniest and the boss. Brother is nine and I just dont care

Anonymous we received the article below. About relationship problems and relationship therapy. But also about the surprising discovery that breaking a pattern starts with yourself. Problems in your relationship. It can occur at any time and in anyone, regardless of age. Every relationship has its

A well-known song by Stef Bos, Daddy I look more and more like you, which everyone knows. Chantal Janzen also sang it again afterwards and man… that was tearful here. How recognizable… Table of Contents Dad I look more and more like you The most difficult months Daddys girl The pain is still so p

Its official:all my girlfriends are in a slump. One because of the Zwarte Piet discussion that hangs over our heads like a thundercloud again. The other because of the real clouds that have been raining non-stop for days now. And as icing on the cake, we have all fallen off our political cloud now t

A bold move:on the new album by K3 (Ushuaia), the girls sing about homosexuality and transsexuality. Between all K3 songs there is also a new song that causes a stir. They want to break a taboo with this song. But is that role for these girls and their young target group? Table of contents K3 son

Its the Week Against Child Abuse. Attention to this is important if you consider that among all children in the class of your child(ren) there is on average 1 child who is abused and/or neglected. Thats terrible isnt it?! That is why Taskforce Child Abuse and Sexual Abuse is launching the campaign #

The power of a mother. Unbelievable how strong it is. It starts with childbirth, but that power lasts a lifetime. As long as a mother has children, she has that inner strength. Sometimes that power is infinite. Would you rather not have it, but you have no choice. It is necessary… While all the fibe

Brrr…. It doesnt happen often that the living room turns into a man cave, but tonight its that time again. Footballluuuuhhhhhh! The man in the house is not a football fan. But if he gets the chance, he wants to watch a game. And especially when his favorite team plays… Ajax. Likewise tonight. Ajax-M

A little while ago Anne wrote an article about age difference in a relationship and its possibilities and impossibilities. We received a lot of reactions from our readers and Jacoline wanted to share her story with us about the fact that a big age difference really shouldnt be a problem. Jacoline te

Imagine:one child after another throws a childrens party, but your child does not receive an invitation to any childrens party. Terrible, my mothers heart would cry! Orthopedagogue Laura Batstra argues for the following:Give a class party instead of a childrens party! Table of Contents Lucky, sh

Such nasty reports always in the press. Big sex offense here, granny assault or child molestation there. I am double in that; on the one hand I am thinking of my colleague case managers who are undoubtedly very busy taking care of the parents of the victims of, for example, an assault. I see the lot

Three ladies and one gentleman live in our house. The first lady is in puberty, the second is almost out and the third is in the middle of menopause. The only man in this family is therefore not to be envied, because he is a super ordered and systematic person. The fact that he also has a home workp

Friends come and friends go. Why cant some people always be friends and what is true friendship anyway? What does it mean and what does it ask of you? True friendship through social media? These days, vague acquaintances are already called friends, but lets face it, not everyone who is called fri

I owe you one more story. In my blog about being isolated from the digital world (a life without internet) I indicated that we had moved because of neighbor nuisance † What kind of neighbor nuisance you ask? Well honestly, what not…. We moved because of nuisance neighbours We have enjoyed living in